"New Year, New Decade, New Way of Life"
Everyone is so afraid to walk away from their current situation. It's often in fear that they might regret moving on and being uncomfortable in a new environment. This type of fear is what leaves people "stuck" in bad relationships, friendships, jobs, and lifestyles. Most people don't ever see the toxicity of things in their lives because they've adapted to it over time and are blinded by their own reality. This type of reality keeps you stuck. It keeps you from unlocking your true purpose and potential.
If you have a form of "toxic baggage" in your life that's costing you your energy, your peace, your happiness, and even your future, it's time to move forward and leave it behind. This year is the time for confidence, healthy relationships and friendships, and for loving yourself first, so you can pour into others. Stop holding onto people because you have a history together. Stop holding onto bad habits because you feel comfortable in your routine.
In order to walk away from whatever is "toxic" in your life, you have to begin by loving yourself first and having a plan for your future and what goals you want to achieve. The moment you let go of what’s holding you down, your reality will change! Is it easy? Absolutely not. But Is it worth it? 100x YES. When you’re in the midst of toxic living, you have on blinders that keep you from seeing the many doors that are open and ready to take you to new opportunities God has for you. Once those blinders are off, it's amazing what good will flow into your life.
In my own life, I'm still blown away by how many doors of opportunity have opened since I LET GO of "toxic baggage" including friendships and negative thinking. For me, my biggest form of toxic baggage was certain friendships. Walking away from those friendships was painful and lonely. I had to remind myself that things change, your circle changes, your goals and life focus all change and that's ok. It's ok to move on from people, jobs, and habits.
God has sent me some of the most encouraging, confident, and inspirational woman into my life that show up daily to cheer each other on in their successes. When you show up and trust the process of growth you will be amazed to see the changes your life will make in the next 6 months, 12 months, 2 years and on.
I encourage you to sit down and ask yourself what is toxic in your life; what could be holding you back from your future? Are there people or jobs that are no longer feeding your soul? Are there things in your life that are making you feel anxious, stressed, exhausted, manipulated, damaged, or incomplete? Work on changing those things and leaving all of them in the past.
Move forward to bigger, better things. Trust the process. Start working on yourself and your "vibe will attract tribe," as my best friend always says. When you start working on yourself and who you want to become, you start attracting more healthy relationships and amazing opportunities. This is YOUR year.
"The pain that you are feeling today,
does not compare to the joy that is coming."
KAYLA PRIDMORE
I am 25 years old and live in Florida. I am a life/personal development coach that specializes in helping woman with anxiety and mental health struggles by giving them motivational tools and support to help them become more confident in themselves. My passion is to help others life fearlessly and
achieving their goals and dreams for their lives.
Follow Kayla's journey on Instagram: @naturallykayla
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